Here is my first Saturday Spotlight that I did via e-mail with my awesome friend and loyal Dan + Shay fan, Tarin! The duo brought her into my life via social media when she discovered them and their music in October of 2014. As you will find out in her answers, Tarin and I have only met once in person, but we have kept in touch via social media since then and have become close friends who bond over the duo's music and so much more. I am very excited that she wanted to be part of my first question and answer feature!
In this first session, I asked Tarin about her favorite Dan + Shay album and individual songs, details about their concerts she has attended, her meet + greet experiences, and much more! After she answered my questions, she had some other things to say about the duo and me as her friend. At the bottom of this post are two of Tarin's meet + greet pictures and a pre-Valentine's Day video message via Twitter (now X) that Dan surprised Tarin and I with on social media back in February of 2016!
Please enjoy reading my first Dan + Shay Fan Spotlight session with Tarin!
Stacy (S): When did you become a fan of Dan + Shay and how did you discover them and their music? What were your first thoughts after you heard their music for the first time?
Tarin (T): I became a fan of Dan + Shay in October of 2014. I had recorded an episode of Live with Kelly and (at the time) Michael because Martin Lawrence was going to be on. He is so funny, so I was excited to watch him on the show. That episode aired July 31, 2014, but unfortunately I hadn't gotten a chance to watch it until October. When Kelly and Michael announced the new country duo, Dan + Shay and the camera panned over to them, I thought to myself, "I hope these guys are good." Well, they weren’t just good, they were amazing! On that episode, they sang "Show You Off" and "19 You + Me" from their Where It All Began album. I instantly fell in love with the duo and their music. I went to all forms of social media to look them up and followed them! I looked them up on YouTube to find more of their music then went on to buy their Where It All Began album on iTunes. I have been a fan ever since! I'm going to be honest, my first thoughts were, "Wow, these guys are cuties haha." My next thought was, "WOW, that guy (Shay) can sing!!" I was excited and surprised to receive likes and comments from their Dan + Shay Twitter (now X) account, only to find out that it was actually Dan himself, responding, which made me love them even more! I listened to them on repeat day after day. I just couldn't get enough of them!
S: How many times have you seen Dan + Shay live? What were some of the venues? And if you had to pick one, which concert has been your absolute favorite and why? Tell me some details about that event.
T: I have been lucky enough to see Dan + Shay live 10 times! My first Dan + Shay concert was in Royal Oak, MI. Next up, the St. Joseph County Fair. That was my second concert of theirs and my first time meeting them. I have also seen them in Grand Rapids, MI a few times at different venues like The Intersection, 20 Monroe Live, and the most recent one being at Van Andel Arena. I have also seen them at Grand Valley State University and Michigan State University. I've been to Traverse City, MI, Escanaba, MI, and I have traveled to Ohio to see them. If I had to pick one concert that was my absolute favorite, wow, that is a really hard question to answer. I have loved every single concert I have been to of theirs. My first was so special because, well, it was my first! I FINALLY got to go see them live; my mom joined me; we had an amazing time! My second concert was truly incredible; that was when I got to meet them for the first time. All of the rest were absolutely amazing because I got to go with my mom, but also because I got to meet up with so many amazing friends that I now have all because of Dan + Shay and their music! My last concert was extra special because I got to take my daughter with me for her very first concert ever and my mom and sister joined us. It is very hard to pick a favorite because they have all been so special to me! I think my first and most recent were my absolute favorites though!
S: How many times have you met the duo? What is your favorite meet and greet moment? Does anything Dan + Shay said to you that was memorable or special stick in your mind? If so, tell me about that memory!
T: I have had the pleasure of meeting Dan + Shay five times! They are the sweetest, most down-to-earth people! I was lucky to meet Dan three separate times, once before a show and two times after two different shows, along with meeting their drummer Andrew and their bass player Dustin, both of whom are wonderful people and super kind! My very first time meeting Dan + Shay was my second concert of theirs. That meet + greet was so special! As soon as my mom and I walked into the tent where the meet + greet was held, my heart started pounding even harder; I was super excited and so nervous. I got to give Shay a hug first and he said to me, "Oh, wow, you smell really good!" haha I'll never forget that! It still makes me laugh to this day! Next, I got to hug Dan. He smiled so big and said "It's so nice to meet you. I saw you out there (in the crowd) and recognized you from Twitter" (now X)! I thought it was insane but so awesome that he actually recognized and remembered me. In that meet + greet, as the four of us chatted, Dan asked my mom and I if we were coming to their show in Grand Rapids at The Intersection, coming that October. My mom and I both replied with a "Yes, we'll definitely have to come to that show!".
That coming October, the morning of my third concert of theirs, I had tweeted Dan + Shay and expressed how excited I was to come see them that night, and how I wished I could meet them again. Never in a million years did I expect what was coming next. I received a DM from the Dan + Shay Twitter account, saying "Hey! What's your full name? Adding you to pre-show meet and greet". I was freaking out; I couldn't believe that I was going to be able to meet them for a second time! I called my husband; he didn't answer. I called my mom; she didn't answer, I was just so excited. I needed to tell somebody what happened. I messaged my new friend Stacy to tell her and she was thrilled for me! We hoped that we would finally be able to meet in person at that show since she also had meet + greet passes. With our mutual love for Dan + Shay, Stacy and I had met through social media and became fast friends. The time had come; my mom and I drove up to Grand Rapids for the show. She dropped me off to stand in line while she met some of her friends for dinner. As I waited in line, someone came out and had everyone that was a part of the meet + greet move to another line, where I was given my meet + greet passes. I didn't know that I would receive two passes, so I quickly called my mom; she had to leave dinner to get back to the venue to get the second meet + greet pass! When the meet + greet line was formed, that's when I got to meet Stacy! She was there with a friend of hers. We chatted while we waited to get in. We were so excited to be there and to meet them again! In that meet + greet, Dan + Shay were once again just as nice as could be, with Dan thanking me for being so supportive of them and their music! What another amazing experience!
All of my meet + greets with them have been wonderful; I only wish they could have lasted a little longer!
S: What is your take on the fact that Dan + Shay still to this day control all of their social media accounts to interact with their fans? What is your favorite memory when they have interacted with you in the past? Describe it and how it made you feel.
T: I absolutely love that Dan + Shay are in control of their social media accounts and that they take the time to like and respond to their fans! From the beginning when they were still very new, it was so important for them to interact with their fans and they did just that, liking and commenting to as many fans as they could; they made us feel like we were their friends and not just their fans. As time went on and they grew to a bigger audience, they continued to show us just how much they love and appreciate us for supporting their careers. The feeling of seeing a like from them or reading their replies, is a feeling like no other! They are some of the kindest people, and the fact that they express so often how they wouldn't be where they are without the support of their fans, shows just how much they really appreciate all of us!
One of my favorite interactions from them on social media was February 13, 2016 when they decided to make short, personalized videos and send them to their fans. Stacy and I both received a video from Dan with him saying "Hi Stacy, Hi Tarin. Thank you guys so much for being awesome and supporting our music and helping us spread the word so much. I just wanted to give you a little shout and say Happy Valentine's Day and I love you both and I can't wait to see you soon, see ya"! I think them taking the time out of their busy lives to make these videos for so many of us just made us all feel so loved and appreciated. I know for me, it just meant so much that they cared enough to personalize each video, and hearing him say my name was pretty cool!!
S: In this moment if you had to pick one of the six albums Dan + Shay have released so far including the Christmas album, which one all the way through is your favorite and why?
T: Hitting me with another hard question I see haha. It's nearly impossible to choose a favorite album. Wow, how do I choose just one? Their Where It All Began album holds a very special place in my heart. It was their very first album and the one that made me fall in love with them and their music! The feeling I get when I hear any of the songs from that album just brings so much happiness to my heart. Although, I feel the same way when I hear any of their songs from any of their other albums. Each album is so unique, whether it's a love song or a song about heartbreak, whether you can relate to the song or not, they're all just so special. I don't think there has ever been another artist where I have loved every single song on every single album. I have always had a hard time picking a favorite song from each album so, I am sorry, I honestly don't think I can actually choose a favorite album! I love them all too much!
S: In this moment if you had to pick your top three favorite songs from Dan + Shay (radio singles or not), what would they be? Tell me why each one is your favorite.
T: Well, since I have a hard time picking favorites, let's see if I can pick a top three for songs. This is SUPER hard because again, I love every single one of their songs so much. But if I have to, I guess I will say "Somewhere Only We Know" from their Where It All Began album, "You" from their Good Things album, and "Always Gonna Be" from their Bigger Houses album. I can't exactly say why I chose these three; part of me feels like it may be the way the music hits me and not so much the lyrics. While the lyrics are incredible in all of them, I think I just love the way "Somewhere Only We Know" sounds. "You", my husband and I have been together for 20 years this year and married for 15 years. I feel like this song just makes me feel so happy, and for us being together for many years, and to have so much time left together, this song just hits in the heart. I also think about it being for my daughter, as my only child; I am so blessed to have her in my life and I am so proud to be her mother. I have her and only her, where the lyrics are "you and only you", and "I've got you for the rest of my life, and if all else goes wrong, baby, I'll be alright". As long as I have her and my husband, I'll be alright! "Always Gonna Be" is another one that hits me similar to "You". The lyrics "Even when we're pushing 80, you're still gonna drive me crazy"; being with the same person since I was 15 years old, we've spent what seems like a lifetime together already haha; we sometimes drive each other crazy, but we hope to be driving each other crazy at 80! And again, just the music alone to these three songs (really all of their songs) is composed perfectly and just makes your heart feel good!
S: What are the top two things you love most about Dan + Shay and why?
T: The top two things I love most about Dan + Shay and why? The fact that they are so appreciative of their fans makes them that much more incredible. So that is one thing I love about them! The second thing I love most about them is that they have stayed humble even after growing into this huge country duo and gaining thousands of fans! They have stayed true to themselves and that is so wonderful.
My experience of being a fan of them for the past 11 years and counting has been absolutely incredible! I found them at a time in my life where I needed just a little something extra to help me through my days. Getting to spend so much time with my mom, taking road trips with her to go see them, is something I will remember and cherish for the rest of my life. Making so many new friends who I got to spend time with while we waited in line to see our favorite country duo or hang out with after the shows. They are now lifelong friends, even if we don't get to talk often or see each other; I love those girls so much! Finally getting to experience a Dan + Shay concert with my daughter, who also loves them, was the cherry on top! Another amazing memory to cherish and hold onto for the rest of my life! I hope there will be many more moments like these to share with my daughter, my mom, and all my D+S girls! These past 11 years of being a Dan + Shay fan have been some of the best years of my life! I want to Thank Dan + Shay for giving me all of those memories, friendships, and making my heart so happy with their music and their kindness! Also for getting me through one of the worst times in my life, when I (Trigger Warning) lost my first baby and my grandmother at the same time. Without their music, without the friendships I made because of them, I would have struggled even more though that devastating time. I am beyond grateful for Dan + Shay!
Thank you Stacy for being such an incredible friend to me all these years. You are always there for me when I need someone and I truly appreciate our friendship! If it weren't for Dan + Shay, we never would have met and became such good friends!
I have had so much fun answering your questions; thank you for asking me to be a part of your awesome blog!
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Dan, Tarin, and Shay. Picture taken by Rob Norris on August 19, 2017 at the WGAR Country Jam at the Cuyahoga County Fairgrounds in Berea, OH, Picture courtesy of Tarin |